tanpa judul

Dan karena cinta tidak pernah salah,
Sah-sah saja kan bila aku masih merindukanmu?

Taman Bungkul 8 Januari 2011

B: "I want you..."

A: "Really?"

B: "Yeah"

A: ":) You don't want me. You want the sex. You would still want it even if its not with me..."

B: "But sex can't be done without emotion."

A: "What kind of emotion?"

B: "I don't know..."

B: "Who are we trying to fool? Look at us! We're like a pair of broken hearts that's not even moved on yet."

A: "Love's victim, I guess"

B: "‎​I'm not an emotionless animal, you know?"

B: "‎​I can't simply grab someone on the street and fuck them"

B: "‎​That's why I never "buy" sex."

A: "..... Then, why me?"

B: "I don't know"

B: "The same could be ask to you too"

B: "Why me?"

A: "....."

A: "I don't know..."

A: "Maybe there are some things best left unanswered"

B: "Perhaps"

Ten Tips For Guys In A Long Distance Relationship

Long distance relationships used to be rare, and only emanated when one of the couple was forced to relocate. However, in the current Internet era, relationships are often randomly struck up with girls living quite a distance away, and some of these long distance relationships — despite the lack of proximity — develop into something serious.
HardyMag has compiled the following list of 10 tips which guys can use to give their long distance relationship a shot — and ideally it can last until the two of you are able to become more geographically compatible.
1. Know The Rules
All relationships have implicit and explicit rules, but the lines are often blurred when it comes to a long distance relationship. Upon embarking upon a long distance relationship, it is paramount that both parties fully understand the applicable rules governing the relationship. Are you to be monogamous? If not, what are the parameters for seeing others? Should this be kept quiet, or shared with your partner? How long are the two of you giving the relationship to work before looking elsewhere?
Answering questions like these and having a full discussion about the parameters which guide your long distance relationship greatly increases the odds of the relationship surviving until you can truly be together in the usual sense.
2. Communication Is Key
Strong and frequent communication is important within the context of all relationships, but it becomes imperative when it comes to a long distance relationship. Daily communication is highly suggested for couples who are unable to share physical presence together. The bond within a long distance relationship can disintegrate quite quickly in the absence of frequent communication. Decades ago this would have entailed massive phone bills or tedious snail mail, but today’s communication options obviously make frequent contact quite simple and inexpensive.
3. Share Your Feelings
Chicks obviously have no problems when it comes to sharing their feelings. In fact, the typical problem guys face with their girlfriend is that she is too expressive and dramatic. Conversely, guys often find it hard to share their innermost thoughts and feelings. This can serve to kill a long distance relationship during its nascent stages, and guys have to be especially attuned to this arena. Without being able to see each other’s facial expressions and read body language, it often becomes difficult to discern with the other party is really thinking.
Open communication helps to maintain her sense of security within the long distance relationship even without the usual signals and subtle body language reassurances that she can get in the “3D world”. Just make an effort to tell her how you feel at least once a day.
4. Send Thoughtful Packages
Regularly sending her personalized packages indicates that you are thinking about her, and it serves to reinforce her sense of security with you. Endeavor to send her favorite body lotions, sweets and, of course, flowers. Shrewd guys can also take this opportunity to subtly include lingerie and/or sex toys which can serve to enhance your enjoyment from the “virtual” play which now universally exists within long distance relationships.
5. Plan Virtual Dates
Set aside blocks of time that are just for the two of you — without any multitasking. In long distance relationships, it is often easy to let her get lost within the mix of other online activities when chatting online, or on the phone. Set “virtual dates” with one another where she knows that during that time she will be the center of your attention.
6. Don’t Jump To Conclusions
Oftentimes, it is easy to jump to unwarranted conclusions within long distance relationships. You often do not have all the facts at hand, and just one snippet of an email or text often proves not to be the full story. This especially relates to rumors or gossip — don’t jump to a conclusion or give credence to anything you hear or read without asking her about it first. What you may view as an unacceptable comment on her Facebook page from another guy might have a good explanation. Just make sure you — without prejudging the situation — give her a full opportunity to explain before you take on an accusatory tone.
7. Trust Her
Girls can innately sense whether you trust them or not — even if you are thousands of miles away. Make sure you give her the benefit of the doubt, and don’t let your inner suspicions or insecurities prompt you to come off as untrusting — or controlling. At such point where you have legitimate reasons to not trust her, this is a good signal that the long distance relationship with her unfortunately is doomed to failure.
8. Meet Regularly In the Real World
There are obvious reasons why you desire to see each other in person. Physical intimacy is a critical component of all relationships whether long distance or not. If you are unable to see each other at least every other month, then you should seriously consider whether you wish to pursue a long distance relationship. Without these periodic times to reinforce your long distance relationship in person, you are facing an uphill battle to keep the spark within it.
9. Share Experiences
Shared experiences can serve to strengthen the bonds which can otherwise weaken within long distance relationships. An example can be reading the same book together, or each taking up the same sport or hobby. Sharing the experience together increases your bond, and it adds commonalities into your lives despite the geographic distance.
10. Women Love Surprises
Use your creativity to keep her on her toes. Girls can bore easily, and this is especially so if you are not around in a physical sense. Seek to keep her intrigue and interest level high by creatively surprising her with either gifts or an unannounced visit. Your imagination is the limit here — always be thinking of ways to keep the long distance relationship fresh and exciting.
A long distance relationship is an uphill battle by definition. Extra effort has to go into it in order for it to last, and we hope the above tips can help a few HardyMag readers keep their distant girlfriends until the day they can be happily united in one locale.

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a Long Distance Relationship

"Doesn't take a genius to realize, that sometimes life is hard. Its gonna take time, but you'll just have to wait..." (Heal Over) ♡

"Come over here, lady, let me wipe your tears away. Come a little nearer, baby, cause you'll heal over someday..." (Heal Over) ♡

"Everybody sails alone... Even if you failed, you know that no one really minds..." (Heal Over) ♡ :'D

"You don't hold on but don't let go, I know its so hard. You've got to try to trust yourself, I know its so hard. So hard..." (Heal Over) ♡

"....Cause you'll heal over. Heal over, someday." ♡ :-)

"Over the sea and far away, she's waiting like an iceberg... But she's cold inside..." (Other Side of The World)

"...and can you can still love me when you can't see me anymore?"

Just too good to be true

Kadang gue mikir, kesempurnaan hadir dan nyata jika kita melihatnya dr jauh. Seperti bulan. Dari jauh indah. Begitu dekat, bopeng.

Atau seperti melihat cinta sepasang kekasih. Sempurna melihat jari-jari saling bertaut. Masuklah ke kehidupan dia. Kesempurnaan? Semu.

Banyak orang yang mengejar kesempurnaan. Mereka lupa satu hal, kenyataan. There's this saying: too good to be true.

Aku. Kamu

Aku. Kamu. Masihkah ada waktu?
Aku. Kamu. Cinta saja tidak pernah cukup. Tapi setidaknya kita sudah mencoba.
Aku. Kamu. Apa masih mungkin? Kau rindu, aku berlalu. Kau berlalu, aku ucap rindu

Aku. Kamu. Masihkah ada waktu?

Aku. Kamu. Gatal disengat pilu. Masihkah ada secarik rindu?
Aku. Kamu. Cinta kita jadi kurban bakaran. Semoga asapnya diterima Tuhan.
Aku. Kamu. Jika cinta bukan dosa, semoga ada jawaban atas segala doa.
Aku. Kamu. Perlahan lenyap dikikis ragu. Tak adakah  jalan lain itu?,
Aku. Kamu. Berguru pada waktu. Mendewasakan rindu.

Iya. Kamu. Topik doaku... *lap ingus*

Aku. Kamu. Tersiksa sepi. Ternyata cinta belum pergi.
Aku. Kamu. Topik doaku. Setiap hari, sepanjang waktu.
Aku. Kamu. Kerinduan berkalang ragu. Mungkinkah Kita bertemu.
Aku. Kamu. Mereguk cinta, mengecap sayang. Di sisa waktu yang hampir terbuang.

Rindu adalah...

Rindu Adalah….

Mari bicara tentang rindu. Perasaan yang mengganggu, tapi selalu ditunggu. :) Apalagi abis ujan sore-sore gini, pastinya rada-rada mellow ya bok :p
rindu adalah menatap langit senja yang merah, dan teringat kamu menanti di ujung pelangi.
rindu adalah membalas lambaianmu di keramaian, hanya untuk tau kamu melambai ke cowok di belakangku
rindu adalah di dalam mal, dan baru sadar pake sendal jepit yang beda warna
rindu adalah saat seorang cadel berteriak “LINDUUUUU” dan banyak orang-orang yang menghambur keluar rumah dengan wajah panik. #ngekkk
rindu gengaman erat di jari, ciuman di kening, hembusan napas di telinga, bisikan lirih “terimakasih” & desir halus saat cinta menyapu hati

rindu: setiap daun yg menguning, rapuh, terkapar di tanah yang basah. Musim gugur yg tak pernah berganti, dan helaan napas yg tak terganti
R=asa I=ngin N=yium D=ipeluk dan U=h-ugh-an #rindu #diaryzamanSD

rindu adalah gema masa lalu yang terus menggaung sampai kini, hingga nanti, sampai mati….

rindu adalah ketika kamu meng-unfollow aku, tapi masih suka ngintip-ngintip timelineku. And yes, I know u still do. #ketawasetan

Rindu adalah sandal jepit kesayanganku yang kau putuskan talinya, dan kau larung ke samudra pasifik, you bitch! #kokmarahmarahyaa
rindu adalah embun yang menyapa, salju yang menderu, dan malam yang membeku. Aku nafikan karena kau beri rindu yang membiru #superdangdut
rindu adalah ketika kau ambil konstelasi gemini dan mempersembahkannya kepadaku, tapi kutampik, karena aku aquarius sejati #eaaaa
rindu adalah tatoo namaku di lengan kananmu kau hapus dengan setrika panas, dan aku menyaksikannya sambil tertawa puas #ketawasetan
rindu adalah berlian yang kau kuburkan dan dijaga Hades dan Poseidon sekaligus, kuambil dan kuhempaskan ke gugus Orion.#makantuhrindu
Rindu adalah ketika kau mengulurkan tangan kananmu, kutebas tangan itu dan kuumpankan ke burung nasar #sadis#balasdendam
Rindu adalah ketika aku mendamba air dan kau menuangnya di padang pasir #bunuhdiri
Rindu adalah ketika kasur yg kau sediakan tak lain dari papan berpaku. Situ pikir sini fakir dari India?
Rindu adalah ketika detak jantungku mendaraskan satu nama, dan kau di sana menulikan telinga #curcol101Ngekkkkk!!!
 Rindu adalah lintah yang menghisap habis setiap senyum saat kau lupa menyapa #eaaaa #curcollagi
Rindu telah mengikis sayap-sayap pengharapanku, hingga aku terhempas ke tanah. Sekarang aku tak mau lagi merindu #curcol

Rindu adalah ketika sinyal internet terbang ke surga, sedang aku di bumi semalaman merana….